Monday, 28 September 2015
THINK ABOUT THIS FOR A MINUTE!
''All my mates are doing very well with good paying jobs,some are even married with kids but here i am wallowing in poverty and no way foward''. This is what goes on in the mind of some people who may feel their condition or present predicament is the worst. They also forget that some of their mates are dead,hospitalized or without food to even eat.
What if you were dead,did you also imagine that you could also have been in their shoes or if you were hospitalized and you can't even help yourself. No,you didn't think about that i guess. You are alive and you can always reach your desired height.
Do you know that some toil day and night,doing all kinds of job and yet their money is not even enough for them not to talk of the family the also cater for,even some married ones are better single because you really don't know how hard it is for them unless you hear their stories.
Next time before you go causing yourself and why God has left you to suffer,remember you are better than some people,you also enjoy benefits which the don't get to enjoy yet they choose to live happily and not let their problems become their frustration...
Before you start wishing to be like that rich friend of yours,think of how the started, its never easy at the start for anyone. Also think of what some of them had to engage themselves into just to get to where they are,some do not have peace of mind or might not be totally as happy as you think.
Remember the mind is like a bag and you never know what is in the others own unless they pour it out to you.
Just know that some people have little but are living in peace,things would get better. Keep the hustle going and believe your own time would come, i know you might think yourself useless but know this once there is life then there is hope.do not kill yourself for what you don't have now.
BE HAPPY AND CONTENT!
Friday, 25 September 2015
DIY FOR PINK AND SOFTER LIPS
For those with dark lips wishing for them to be softer and pink,i read this and thought to share.. Use a teaspoon of honey and a drop of lemon juice on your lips,do this as often as possible everyday till you get desired result,
Also try Cinnamon powder for luscious lips.. There is a whole lot that honey,lemon and cinnamon can do. The also aid in weight loss.
POWER SURELY INTOXICATES
If you want to know how arrogant or abusive a person really is,just put them incharge of something or over people no matter how small the position is,he or she would just change automatically. They might begin to act like as if they were drunk or high on any substance,their countenance changes and they begin to live like different people who are too big to listen to anyone.The become lords and often times take nicknames that show their authority over everyone.
Try and put that person who acts humble and loyal to just a tiny test and see him fail woefully. Power really gets into some people's head so much that they don't even recognize if any other person was existing,they would want to be lord over everyone's life. Many people have shown an example of how power intoxicates in past times and in our everyday life.
Keep a child and tell him to look after his younger ones and give him the power to correct any of them that goes wrong,before you come back na mortar combat fights you go see for your hose.Lol
The only thing on the minds of these kind of people is how to get even with anyone who questions their authority,mind you before they got to that position they were everybody's friend,always smiling at everyone who cared to smile back,they were even so generous with their things and didn't mind if anyone stepped on their toes.
This people are seen every where from big positions in the society to positions as small as School Prefects, Course Reps, CLO's, Women and Men meeting presidents,Team head.
Being the eldest child of the house also gets into some heads where they try to manipulate or bend their younger ones to their own terms,ever wondered why some siblings who used to be really close fell out with each other?
For the positions where they would be elected into, they most times would never react to any silly thing people did until when they finally got hold of that position then those who opposed them becomes their first example of a 'scape goat'.
As long as a person has that thirst to always be in charge which a lot of humans posses,at any little opportunity they are given will not fail to show their prowess and lordship over all, some even make laws and ask others to abide by it. For instance,you will give them mantel of leadership for some days or weeks,before you come back they have rearranged everywhere when they are aware the position is not even a permanent one. Some will even fight you when you come back for your seat because they have so clinged to power that leaving it seemed difficult.Truly power intoxicates when it gets to the head.
Power intoxicates,Absolute power intoxicates absolutely -Lord Acton!
THE BABY DADDY TREND
Surely if ladies would have spiritual lenses to have a peak into what goes on in the lives of these baby mama and daddies,love would not be excuse for our ignorance.
Its actually your business if you decide to have a child outside wedlock,that is a different ball game but this trend of baby daddy is getting out of hand, where a man especially celebrities have children from more than one woman. The problem is not the man but you the woman who maybe wishes to be associated with a celebrity.
Even if you wish for the association,it shouldn't be the case of subjecting yourself to just making babies for him or because you feel that would trap him into marrying you when he explained that he needed to focus on his carrer and marriage wasn't part of it.
Have you asked yourself if those women that these men marry have two heads? Surely the have just one head with pretty features like you too,why then have you subjected yourself to only popping out babies and enlarging his empire. He does this with two different women and yet you had the mind to have the fourth or third child for him..
In all honesty,some women create the mess and dramas they are in. This is for those with ears!
If a woman decides to have a child and take care of that child not because she wanted all those baby mama drama,that is a different case but thinking that having a child with him can make him stay and marry you is surely going to be a failed fight. Look around,you'd see how futile that style has become.
Wednesday, 23 September 2015
THE THREE L'S
This is something to ponder over,how much love do you give. Giving love is not only in the romantic aspect but the one you give to those who have no one like the orphans,prisoners,widows and the less priviledged generally. A little visit or even prayer for them will do.
Have you ever thought of your problems and just laughed because you believe something big is on the way,some people might think you have lost it but a little laugh will do. You are not the only one with a problem. A sad face is only paving way for a weak heart.
Ever wondered how cancer survivors make it through,i read a story about one that really touched my heart and got me thinking . What about people whom we thought after seeing their conditions would never leave the hospital ward or one problem or the other alive,have you ever thought of the driving force in you that makes you determined to live against all odds. When you decide to make the most out of life no matter how hard it might seem but you live through it all..
You are not carrying all the problems of the world though today maybe be tough but joy comes in the morning. Change your routine today and include the three L's : Love like never before, Laugh like you send nobody and choose to Live happy despite how hard it might seem.
Put a smile on that face no matter the condition,there wouldn't have been sunny days if the rain didn't come..
Be Happy and Live life.... Happy Sallah celebration and holiday in advance fam.. xoxo
DON'T TELL ME WHO YOUR FATHER IS,TELL ME WHO YOU ARE
It was a Saturday evening,i was walking back to my aunt's house from a shop where i went to get some fruits for my dinner. He walked up to me and asked for a minute of my time,i am not the type who shun people i'd rather listen to know whatever the person has to say so i stopped.
He introduced himself and asked that we exchanged numbers,he also talked about how he knew my aunt and her children very well and that they were all from the same place. Because i felt it was harmless to exchange numbers and since i had no friend around, i gave him my number.
I got into the house and thankfully i met my cousin,then i asked about this guy i met,my cousin said he was cool and i could hang out some time with him if i wished and since i was always bored and i agreed.
Something about this guy wasn't right to me even after my cousin had cleared me on that but then he proved my intuitions right when he called me after some days saying he had been busy and bla bla and bla. He tried to convince me why i should be his friend which the reasons included how his brother is a senator of the federal republic. That particular statement blew his chances,how could he think i would be tripped by his elder brother or father's achievement.
I kept wondering until i realized that many a time,most young men think they can woo and get a girl by mere mention of their father's numerous achievements,'Oga some women are tripped by your own achievements not that of your family member' These kind of men make it seem like they are nothing without these popular or rich family member of theirs. The only thing i asked this guy that made him stop pestering me was when i asked what he has been able to do for himself since he had a rich brother and surprisingly nothing..
This also applies to women too..Let that your father,mother,brother,sister be a role model you look up to not a name to get your way with. I am only interested in Who you are not who your father is. If i wanted that your father or brother then that's a different case,stop spoiling ya show with ya hand..LOL
Your father is a president,who are you? Your brother is a rich man,where is your own?
Saturday, 19 September 2015
TALES OF THE AFRICAN CHILD SERIES 2 : CHILD PROSTITUTION IN DISGUISE

BESTIE OR BEDMATES?

Tuesday, 15 September 2015
HEART BURN RELIEVE DRINK
Friday, 11 September 2015
JUST BEFORE YOU FALL HEAD OVER HEELS

Wednesday, 9 September 2015
TALES OF THE AFRICAN CHILD SERIES- FEMALE CIRCUMCISION



Monday, 7 September 2015
CHILD ABUSE.MAN MOLESTS DAUGHTER AND GIVES HER MONEY

Saturday, 5 September 2015
WORLD SHORTEST MAN DIES AT 75

Friday, 4 September 2015
HONEY DOES IT ALL

Tuesday, 1 September 2015
ANNA EBIERE SHOWS OFF HER BABY
MAN SETS PREGNANT LOVER ON FIRE SENTENCED TO FIVE YEARS

HEALTH BENEFITS OF COCONUT AND WATER MELON SEED


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