THE THING ABOUT DESPERATION

When women complain about how badly the have been treated by most men the dated you begin to wonder why a beautiful woman has to suffer such ordeal. I began to imagine when i heard a story about a lady who was supporting this man all through,right from their university days she payed their fees because the young man was from a very poor home while she the lady was born wealthy. After their university education the served in different states but kept in touch,according to the story the man thought he was just friends with this lady and nothing else not knowing the lady admired and wished the could date that was why she voluntered to pay his fees when it was difficult for him. After their service year the lost contact for a while and then met again by the both have been in relationships and out,the lady in question desperately wanted to be married before the end of that year while the man was not ready because he did not have any stable job. this woman started carrying responsibility for this guy even after he told her that he was not sure about marrying her. You know that's the mistake most of we ladies makes,we think by providing the man with everything that makes him automatically our husband. The woman closed her ears to all warnings from friends even from the man's indirect speeches,got him a house,furnished it,got a job and a car for him and after some time moved in with him. Then her wahala now started when she decided to take in for the man since he has been postponing the date to go and see her parents,in her thoughts this pregnancy will make the man have a change of heart towards the marriage. The pregnancy made matters worse,the man totally changed he started keeping late nights and friends she did not know anything about,he comes home at will sometimes after one week and unknown to the woman her supposed husband abi boyfriend has a very serious relationship outside and was already planning to marry the other lady. She cries herself to bed hoping he would have a change of heart towards her,she could not even go out with her friends again because of the shame of the pregnancy,she did not know that the worse news would soon be heard. She was almost in her last trimester of the pregnancy when some group of people came to meet her at home giving her a one month notice to vacate the house because her man has sold it,she was shocked and tried reaching him but it kept saying switched off,he had not returned home since Friday and today is Sunday yet no one has seen or heard about his whereabouts. She was contemplating to go and report for a missing person in the police when her friend came into the house and told her how the man had married another lady and has left the country with her and their three year old son. She was dazed at the reality starring her,so he already had a child and still lived with her? How did he do it,how was he able to cover such a thing up all these years? she had nothing else her car and house has been sold. she has not been going to work because of her condition and did not know how to face her parents. The thing about desperation is that it blinds the victim,once their heart is programmed on a certain thing the fall deaf ears to any advice. the story above was just one out of the many thing desperation can do. Ladies and gentlemen please always look before you leap.